Boudoir PEI - Busting Excuses! | Charlottetown PEI
When we get nervous, we make excuses. We make excuses not to love ourselves or take care of ourselves. Sometimes life is busy, we are too crazy at work, or always driving someone somewhere. We also use excuses like “I wanna lose 15lbs first!” and “I don’t have the money right now!”
Let me remind you that no matter the excuse, YOU ARE WORTHY of self love!
“I don’t have enough time for myself”
It is important to remember that if you are not taking care of yourself mentally, you are not going to be able to handle taking care of everyone else; which I know is easier said than done! There are days that I am the WORST at making sure I prioritize my mental health breaks and that is why I believe it is important to share this with you all. Although I may make the same excuses as above, sometimes I need someone to look me in the face and say, “SLOW DOWN, give yourself a break, breathe for a minute!”
During a boudoir session you will be able to breathe, and love yourself for a few hours. Think of all the energy you’ll save on a daily basis if you stop comparing yourself to others, or stop worrying about what other people will think of how you look. When you see where your beauty really comes from, it is a huge mental weight lifted off you.
You need to take time for yourself, why not spend it having an amazing time and getting glammed up for once?
“I’m not where I want to be weight wise / I don’t fit the media’s idea of a good enough size”
Did you know that the body type portrayed in advertising as the ideal is possessed naturally by only 5% of American females. ONLY FIVE PERCENT!
I will repeat myself again and again, but WHY do we feel we have to be a certain size to LOVE ourselves? WHY do we have to fit a stranger's idea of a “perfect” body type to LOVE our own bodies? WHY are we comparing our size to everyone else, when no two women are the same?!
It is amazing to have goals and want to be healthy, but does that mean you have to hate your body to accomplish those things? Absolutely NOT! You should love yourself every step of the way. Be proud of where you are and where you are going!
Book a boudoir session to celebrate where you are NOW, and then you can always schedule another session to CELEBRATE how far you have come when you have reached your goal!
“I never feel sexy or sensual anymore so a boudoir shoot must not be for me.”
WRONG!
This excuse is actually the EXACT reason you SHOULD do a boudoir shoot!
We can lose touch with our femininity or sexuality when life gets crazy because of work/kids/life changes. It happens; and it is absolutely normal and okay!
A great way to find this side of ourselves again is to have a boudoir shoot done to ignite a spark back in us. I can help show you that you have that inside you, and it might even rekindle a spark between you and your spouse as well!
Another thing to remember is that you DO NOT have to wear sexy clothing/lingerie. If you feel like this doesn’t show your personality, then there are many other outfit ideas. I would gladly talk through outfit ideas with you to help you feel more confident and excited for your boudoir session.
“A boudoir shoot is an investment and I don’t have all the money right now.”
Yes, a boudoir shoot IS an investment. However, it is an investment in yourself. You are investing in your well-being and confidence! We do offer payment plans to help make it more feasible. If you have any further questions regarding our payment plans, reach out via email, I would love to chat with you!
Sending you SO much love!
Naomi xo
